Confidently Navigate the Sex Talk

Learn how to approach the sex talk in a way that is comprehensive, informative, and age-appropriate for your child.

Layered Approach to Sex Education

Learn how the layers - layer! Discover how easy it is to provide information that builds upon each other! Ensuring your child receives the right amount of details - at the right time.

Prevent Child Sexual Abuse

Understand how comprehensive sex education can safeguard your child against abuse and exploitation and promote healthy boundaries.

STOP Wondering if you are Saying the Right Thing!

Top Talks gives you the reassurance that you are having age-appropriate talks! It's expertly guided to help you develop your communication skills to deliver medically-accurate and age-appropriate sex education to your child. Say goodbye to uncertainty and hello to confident conversations about puberty, reproduction, sexuality, masturbation, and porn.

Top Talks Course Curriculum

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    Welcome to Top Talks

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    The Where do Babies Come From Talk

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    The Sex Talk

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    The Puberty Talk

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    Completely Change Your Parenting Approach to the Sex Talks in 10 minutes!

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    The Relationships Talk

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    The Masturbation Talk

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    The Porn Talk

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Is Top Talks Age-Appropriate?

Top Talks follows the World Health Organization's guidelines to provide age-appropriate sexuality education for your child.

What do I actually Say to My Kid?

Top Talks equips you with proven scripts to confidently discuss sensitive topics with children in the intermediate (7,8,9) and middle school (10,11,12) age groups.

When should I Have the Porn Talk?

Top Talks provides a strategic roadmap for progressively layering each talk, culminating in a confident discussion about porn, including a porn literacy talk, by the end of middle school. 

Meet Kathleen Hema

With 15+ years of experience in sex education, Kathleen is dedicated to empowering parents with the tools & strategies to effectively start The Sex Talks and keep them going. She has guided parents in 80+ countries with her simplified and layered approach to the sex talks. "I designed Top Talks for the hundreds of parents who DM me on a daily basis wondering if they should be having (insert any sex talk) with their kid and if so, what should they say!? I am a mom of 2 young kids and I'm actively having the sex talks in my own home. I know it can be nerve-wracking to bring up these topics with your own kid and that's why I created Top Talks. I want every parent to feel confident explaining these topics in a medically-accurate and age-appropriate way."

Here's what Parents have to say about Top Talks!

"THANK YOU SO MUCH!"

"Not only was I able to get through the conversation in a confident manner but being able to open the lines of communication and trust on that subject is something I will forever be grateful for."

"I am no longer afraid to have the talks."

"In the end, it wasn't as scary as I had made it in my mind to be. Kathleen guided me and gave me the confidence to know what I was doing was age-appropriate!"

"It literally took 2 minutes to have the sex talk!"

"I dreaded having this talk and kept on putting it off. In the end, I explained it just like in the course and he had the exact reactions Kathleen said a 9 year-old would have. I'm so happy I didn't wait any longer!"

Unlimited Access vs. 35 Days

Parents - You get to choose what works best for you!  Top Talks offers 2 options: $300 for Unlimited Access or $150 for 35 days of Access. Both options give you access to the FULL course along with all the digital downloads provided for FREE inside. These digital downloads include The Complete Guide to the Early Sex Talks, Pocket Guide: Where do Babies Come From?, Puberty Topics in Jar, & Teen Topics in a Jar. Top Talks: Unlimited Access gives you the freedom to go at your own speed. It's Lifetime Access! You can use the course as needed from your eldest to your youngest kid. Feel free jumping around to the topics that are relevant to your kids' age. Don't waste your time trying to learn everything all at once! All the lessons will always be there - so come back and pick up where you left off as your kid gets older. You get access to all the updates, including new lessons & new digital downloads as they are released!  Do I get access to the Top Talks Parenting Program?  Unfortunately, with Top Talks: Unlimited Access or 35 Days Access, there is no automatic invitation to join the Top Talks Parenting Program which meets once a month. In the Parenting Program you can ask individual questions and receive personalized advice from Kathleen, learn from other parents who have kids around the same age, and get invitations to special guest livestreams. Get to meet, ask questions, and learn from friends of Kathleen's who are talented authors, researchers, professors, and content creators!  If you are interested in joining the Top Talks Parenting Program, you can submit a request to join by sending an email to [email protected]

Stay up-to-date with the latest research in Top Talks

In the world of parenting & education, new research is released all the time. Top Talks stays relevant and is regularly updated to provide you with this information. No need to wonder if the stats are current - they are! You can be rest-assured that you are giving your kid the most accurate information that is currently available. 

My Kid is 5 years-old, Would Top Talks work for them?

Potentially, Yes. Top Talks is designed for parents who are about to have the sex, masturbation, or porn talk for the first time. None of those 3 talks are age-appropriate for a 5 year-old.  However, you can get prepared for those future talks by learning how to have the Where do Babies Come From Talk (included in Top Talks). As well as use the digital download the Complete Guide for the Early Sex Talks (included in Top Talks) which is designed for parents of kids between the ages of 3-6. 

My Kid is 9 years-old, Would Top Talks Work for Them?

Yes, Top Talks is designed for parents to deliver these talks to their kid between the ages of 7-12. It's tailored for starting the talks anytime during the intermediate age (7,8,9) and continue through the middle school age (10,11,12).

My Kid is 13 years-old, Would Top Talks work for them?

Most Likely, Yes. The intention of Top Talks is to layer the talks over a period of 3-6 years. If you have a 13 year-old, all of the information in Top Talks is age-appropriate, but you don't have the luxury of time! You will notice that your 13 year-old may not ask the common questions provided or engage in the talks, but stay on course because they are hearing the information and that's really great!  

What Digital Downloads are Included in Top Talks?

ALL OF THEM! Top Talks gives you the tools you need to confidently succeed in the talks!  Digital Downloads that are Immediately Available upon Enrolling: The Complete Guide to the Early Sex Talks $30 Pocket Guide: Where do Babies Come From? $20 Puberty Topics in a Jar $30 Teen Topics in a Jar $30 If you purchased all the digital downloads individually it would cost you over $100. Whether you choose Top Talks: Full Access or Top Talks for 35 Days, you get all the current digital downloads included for FREE.  I have developed these digital downloads to assist parents in having the talks and I love creating new tools to help parents succeed in having the talks.  By choosing Top Talks: Unlimited Access ($300), you will automatically get immediate access to any new digital download being offered, as well as course updates to current lessons, and all new course lessons. You won't even have to do anything extra! Just being enrolled in Unlimited Access, it will automatically appear in your Top Talks course curriculum. Top Talks for 35 Days ($150) is for parents who need to get the talks done quickly! This enrollment grants you access to the full course including all the digital downloads (over $100 in value) for 35 days from the date of signing up. You choose what works best for you and your family! 

Ready to Start having Top Talks?

Enroll today and start having age-appropriate and medically-accurate sex talks today.